STOP DREAMING & START ACHIEVING
Your 10 Point Goal Setting Challenge For 2014
That was the start of amazing experiences, where instead of a life of holding on to hopes and dreams I began to realise a life of achieving them. Not only do you have a motivating plan of actions to follow during the year but also something else quite remarkable happens. I was told to include in my goals a couple of things that I believed I had no way of achieving. So the first year I decided to write down a long held desire to visit America. I had no money to afford a holiday and so in my opinion it was still a dream.
There was no way that I believed that by just writing it down the dream would become a reality. However, to my amazement before the end of the year I had met and made friends with an American lady who invited me to visit her home the next year! This was the start of many of my dreams becoming a reality. Just need to clarify one thing. Not all of them come to fruition and never in the timescale you expect or wish for!
That’s the thing, you have to be patient and keep transferring your wishes into goals. I still have one that has been on my list for years and years – to design and have a house built. At some stage every year I draw out my designs. Each year they are refined. Yet, I do not have the money to make my dream a reality. However, something keeps holding me to my dream and finally this month I am taking steps to move it from the drawing board into bricks and mortar. Will my dream be realised? I still don’t know but the fun is in watching for the opportunities and then taking the steps to move you forward.
Always remember that the pathway to achieving your dreams may be in a slightly different direction. I have spent years looking for land to buy. I have been frustrated by financial constraints holding back my dream. The problem was that by knocking my head on a brick wall trying to make it work I had forgotten to step back from it and look for the opportunities. Guess what happened when I eventually did that? I realised that if I can get planning permission I have enough land to build the home of my dreams right next to my present house.
I feel excited and motivated for the New Year after writing my goals and action plan. So here are my tips for your 2014 Goal Setting Challenge:
1. Start with the goals you feel sure you can achieve.
2. Set actions to make them reality.
3. Write down one achievable action per goal that can be carried out early in the New Year.
4. Make sure your actions are achievable. This helps to motivate and keep you on track
5. Make sure each action has a date that it must be completed by.
6. Plan how and when you will review your goals and update your action plan. This is important if you are to move things forward.
7. Include a couple of goals from your dream/wish list. These are the ones that you have no idea how to move them forward.
8. Set the goal of increasing your awareness of opportunities to progress your dreams into actions to achieve them.
9. Where there are barriers in your way take a step back and look for the opportunities. The pathway may be in a slightly different direction.
10. Stop dreaming and start achieving.